Christopher
Moderator
What fellow contractors would be offended by you talking to another contractor. If someone gets offended by you talking to someone else they are either mentally unstable or have an agenda they are hiding from you.
+100 Great post Greg.
I have friends on many of these forums on many different sites and most know that I am friends with a lot of people and know that I really don't care if their panties get in a bunch if I talk to someone that they don't like, it is life and they just have to deal with it.
This is not Jr. High School where someone says "Don't talk to Tony or I will not be your friend" or other stupid stuff like that, this is the adult world and people know that you have friends with people that they might not know, might not like or possibly even hate and that is just too bad for those mentally unstable people or those with an agenda.
You have not been in this industry long enough or on these forums long enough to see how there are people out there that will manipulate you, take advantage of you, get you to do or say things or other stuff to where it will make you look bad in many different ways, some you will not even realize until later on down the road and then you will wonder why you said or did what you did, it is what those kind of people do and they are good at it.
I have seen those people manipulate others into saying and doing things that got good people to look bad, get banned or got them laughed at by other people because these manipulators do this for many different reasons. I will not post their names but over time you will start to see who they are and if you are open minded (listen to all sides of situations, listen and talk too all kinds of people, etc.....), you will start to see who those manipulators are and then wonder why they do what they do and a lot of times nobody knows why they love to manipulate people.
It is like what Rance said, it is what is not said that says a lot, besides what people say.
Tony S. is one of the most honest people out there that I know, he has a lot of integrity (more than a lot of others) and can be trusted totally. If someone tells you different, I would wonder why and stay away from that kind of person as they obviously have an agenda and are trying to manipulate you in case you did not see it coming a mile away.
There are some people out there that say to stay away from the "drama" people but what those people are not telling you is that these people that are supposedly causing "drama" over here are the people that are passionate about this industry and want to protect it from those that are lying to the industry for the past decades, lying to regulators, wanting tougher restrictions, ordinances, regulations, etc...... so they can sell you more equipment or more expensive equipment to do the same job that has been done forever with the same equipment or worse..... have the job done only by certain companies because they have certain equipment and are members of a certain org.
Some of those people have been caught lying in person, lying on emails, caught lying in conventions, round tables, etc..... and most of us want this nonsense stopped because it is not only wrong but wrong in so many ways and that is no way to treat contractors that are out there trying to feed their families, contractors that support people that are stabbing them in the back in many different ways and contractors that are being lied to for decades about things that are being done to them without their knowing about it from so called "industry leaders".