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Enjoyed the talk Tony....Thanks
Tony,Al, you mentioned testimony. There is only so much one wants to reveal about his mistakes on a public board. But I will testify to this:
I was raised in a very conservative "church" and was baptized at age 7 because that is what I thought I was supposed to do to be saved. I gave my first sermon at age 9. It was a five minute lesson on the "sin" of missing a worship service. (Now I look back and wonder why someone didn't smack me!).
I went through my teenage years falling in and out of all the same sins that most teenagers find themselves involved in. Many of which weren't even sins at all, but I was programmed to carry the guilt on my shoulders like a lead weight. Dozens of times I was forced to confess my "public" sins publicly in order to "gain back" my lost salvation.
My life was a wreck and I felt I was constantly in a lost condition because I constantly found myself "sinning".
By the time I went in the Navy I had completely given up and accepted my fate as being not good enough to be saved. I never lost my faith in the fact that there was a God, just lost my belief that I could be saved.
After that it was "Eat Drink and be Merry for tomorrow we die!"
I fell into every imaginable sin. I don't need to detail it here.
Once out of the Navy I started a family and began looking toward the Lord again. But my family had been started on the SAND with an immoral foundation to begin with and as time went on I even went so far as to change my ways and go into a seminary type school.
At the school I had questions regarding the "works" based "earning" of our salvation. The mere asking of the questions got me in lots of trouble. Finally I resigned from the school and went back into my life of despair and sunk to even further depths.
Eventually the family I built on the SAND crumbled and fell apart. I turned to God to save it. But the seeds I had sewn had grown into a broken marriage and home. God heard my cry. He sent me Shelly. She had been in Russia and Romania doing missionary work. She was in the same type of church, but didn't believe the "works" based salvation, she believed that our works are the "result" of our appreciating being saved.
I learned about grace. This was about 13 years ago. It was a tough learning experience for me. Little things that had been considered grave sins before were now something I could simply lay at the feet of Jesus and let him work on my heart in his own sweet time. I didn't need to worry about being lost at any given time simply because I had sinned and not had time to ask forgiveness for it.
Like a sculptor, the Lord started to work on me. I was like a piece of clay that had been trying to make itself into something useful, but now I just lay there at the feet of the master and submitted to his hands.
There have been times of rebellion. Sometimes we've chosen the wrong friends and followed like a dumb sheep into destructive behaviors, but the Lord has always gently brought us back to our senses. Each such experience now brings us to a closer relationship with the Lord instead of acting as a wedge between us and the Lord.
We've got a long way to go. I'm a piece of clay that hasn't even taken a shape yet. But one day I hope I'll be made into something that is at least useful to our Lord and Savior. Meanwhile I will just continue on submitting, failing, calling to him and trying to show "works" that reflect my thankfulness for him.
I've passed this on to Chris and his family in the hopes that he will not make the same mistake I did by building his house on the SAND.
My house is now built on the ROCK. It sure does feel good to sleep at night knowing that God is in control and looking forward to the day I die so I can meet him rather than going to bed in dread or denial every night.
Some may disagree with my beliefs. That's ok. I disagreed with my own beliefs a few years ago and I might disagree with what I believe now ten years from now. But I am confident that the Lord knows my heart wants to do his will and even if I am wrong he has the power to save me.
There' my testimonial, Al. That's why the verse means so much to me:
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.
There is no verse...but I have always interpreted it to mean "clean living" or being spritually clean, not actually referring to "a clean house" or physically being clean. Although there is enough verses in the Bible that refer to washing and proper ways to eat that may support the phrase actually means to keep your house and your body physically clean.
Just my opinion![]()
Another thought guys.....
Can you lose your Salvation?????
OK Al, here we go. This is one of those type of things that divides churches, relationships, and people. I personally like the idea of having the forum that you suggested, however, topics like this, speaking in tongues and things of that nature are better left off. I do believe that they are VERY important topics to discuss, however, just like you talked about earlier in this post, it would be great to see someone get saved from this site, I think that also comes with the fine line of keeping it simple. At the same time, truth be told, a spirtual walk is not simple, but these in depth topics are better left for once someone begins to mature in Christ, not up front. Just my opnion. Again, they do need to be addressed, I just think that getting too in depth too quickly could scare people off.
I think you are a great guy, Al, and you have the right intentions, and I totally support it happening, off the board and on the board, I would just hate to see someone get turned off by too complicated topics.
I know that this response will not discourage you, and in absolutely no way is it intended to do so, I am just saying that imho, this is something that is "too deep, too fast".
You have gave us a very short line Scott, I would have thought my last post was uplifting and inspiring to some.Al,
This is approaching the line. I would prefer that this type of discussion not take place because it can lead to too many arguments and disagreements. So, as the sticky says, stick to things that will uplift and inspire others.
“My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me. “And I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; neither shall anyone snatch them out of My hand. “My Father, who has given them to Me, is greater than all; and no one is able to snatch them out of My Father’s hand. (John 10:27-29 NKJV)
As Christians I don't feel it will lead to divisions among us.
I totally agree, Al! When my wife and I get together with her best friedn and husband, many, many times, we will talk about subjects like this and other "in depth" topics. Some times, we agree, many times we dont. We will talk for some time about things that we do not agree on. Neiher of us are attempting to convince to other that one is wrong and one is right, we just debate it and I think we both have a great time. In the end, we are both saved even though we view things differently. I am not referring to division among the Christians. Earlier you stated about helping someone get saved through the site. When that happens, that is far more valuable than any one of us making a single dime in business. If we are talking about, as Christians, talking about these type subjects, not an issue. However, if you are talking about helping lead someone to Christ, I do personally believe that too much too fast can be overwhelming.
Before you posted,
I had no idea on David and Bathsheba, I am not into Old Testament and If someone tested me even on the New Testament I would probably flunk 9 out of 10 times.
They are some things that I don't worry or lose sleep over, things like sprinkled/submerged, definition of hell, definition of heaven, are we resurrected immediately or are we going to be raised at the 2nd coming, predestination,demonations and losing Salvation....My list is endless, for my little mind..... is not even capable of comprehending God's Big Picture....That is why Faith is so Important.
But As Christians, they are things that are Non nonnegotiable and we will be held accountable one day.
Anywho, I did some googling and found this already discussed in length here
http://www.theologyonline.com/forums/showthread.php?t=54025
Its some great reading, a lot of insight from both sides.
I found this there..
http://www.gnpcb.org/esv/search/?q=Psalm+51
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