mistersqueegee
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Al what about the principle that evil prospers when good men do nothing? Those others are lying and slandering. It will only get worse if no one addresses it.
Al what about the principle that evil prospers when good men do nothing? Those others are lying and slandering. It will only get worse if no one addresses it.
The best way to handle someone that might not like you is don't give them any reason to do so and don't hold in that same anger towards them.
If you want to simplify this....this is what I was taught a kid....
Take 2 kids fist fighting pounding each other.....I was not taught to beat the kid to a pulp.....but it takes more courage o walk away from a fight.
When 2 people fight, hate,exchange words ect....no good comes comes out of it until someone rises above
For me that Principal still applies
Snippets from the new testaments....might not be the best of words......
I'm not calling motives into question, but I have two GENERAL questions:
1. is it inherently wrong to derive income for your time and efforts when it is designed to help the industry?
2. it is inherently right to selflessly give of your time and energies at no cost for the sake of an industry you are endeared to?
Don't read into this more than it is intended, please.
It just seems like so many people deify the industries they are involved in, instead of viewing their livelihoods as a vehicle to the more important things in life.
It wouldn't be an issue either way Dan if ones who simply went about doing things either of those two ways instead of attacking constantly (or sending their "friends" to do their dirty work). The sad reality is that there is a group that is working hard to discredit certain people in an effort to steal some of the attention for their own money making ventures. That is inherently wrong.
1. No. If one has the character and morals to remain on the path towards helping the industry without giving in to the temptation if using that position to better himself at the expense of others
2. Yes. If that is the choice one makes.
I would be curious to hear your opinion Dan.
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Unfortunately, Tony, the dilemma arises as to hearing two different stories that can hardly be reconciled. If I tend to believe the 'other side' then you will accuse me of calling you a liar and Ron will presume to say that I support the alleged actions of the 'other side'. And of course if I believe what is mostly said here about Chris, Thad and so on then I'm supposedly calling them liars. You know good and well that it may require more time for the real truth to be revealed. And perhaps as you said, things are being spun to a certain perspective. That can apply to both camps. Time will unspin what has been spun. Maybe some of these issues are not make or break issues. "There is a time to keep quiet and a time to speak". We've all got to decide for ourselves when those times are.[/QUOTE]
Dan, I agree that in the end it will all be revealed and I will be more than pleased when that happens. However I feel I already know your stance on many things here and we simply won't be able to agree on much else. Have a nice evening.
I agree with you on 1.
One may make a personal choice to give freely to his beloved industry. I feel that's good and admirable. However I don't feel it is inherently right, period, to do such a thing. I repeat, the cleaning industry is not a god. It is a viable means of attaining self-sufficiency for many of us. Whether almighty God has blessed our efforts or it is our energy and smarts, or even just coincidence that we do well is endlessly up for debate when you consider everyone's opinions. But if God has happened to bless your choice to do what you do for your family, HE is the one that we should give back to. Not saying you don't Tony. What I'm saying is that just because some bend over backwards and superextend themselves with events and the like, this doesn't inherently make them saints.
Hello Dan. I guess we will just have to disagree on this. There are just too many places in the Bible that define our purpose here.
1) We are to do our work with all our might as if we were doing it for the Lord. Colossians 3:23 Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, (NIV)
2) Not all of us are teachers. Not all of us are put on this earth to spend our every moment doing Kingdom work. James 3:1 Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly.
And when you say "He is the one we should give back to" are you thinking about the manner in which he instructed us to give back? We were given specific instructions in many places on how to give back to Him. Here is one as far back as Solomon. That theme is continued throughout the New Testament:
Proverbs 19:17 Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the Lord, and he will repay him for his deed.
Ephesians 4:28 Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need.
Solomon sums up the reason for our work pretty well here:
Ecclesiastes 3:9 What gain has the worker from his toil? 10 I have seen the business that God has given to the children of man to be busy with. 11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. Also, he has put eternity into man's heart, yet so that he cannot find out what God has done from the beginning to the end. 12 I perceived that there is nothing better for them than to be joyful and to do good as long as they live; 13 also that everyone should eat and drink and take pleasure in all his toil—this is God's gift to man.
So we are to work as if we are working for the Lord, give to and protect the poor, and enjoy the fruits of our labor. That is God's gift to us.
I can't speak for anyone else here. But I can speak for myself. I have a decent education. I have a gift for research and my writing skills are at least readable. God has blessed me and my family and given me a business that allows me to give to the poor not only monetarily, but with my time.
That is what I've been doing here for almost 5 years now. When I first spoke to Ron on the phone, in 2008, I told him that of all the boards I had ever been on, all the way back to BBS's in the 80's this was the first place I had ever seen where businessmen were open to help newcomers get into the business and if they had the skills and the determination, with a little help from PWI they could become sucessful (so that they, in turn, could help the poor).
My exact words to Ron were "This board shows the Christian spirit towards others more than any board I've ever been on".
In the first couple of months after I signed on to PWI I got two calls from remote areas of the country from one guy who was a drunk and another who was just scraping by. They told me they appreciated how I was willing to help guys like them who considered themselves poor. At that time a switch went off in my head.
I thought, maybe God has put me here because there is a need that I can fill here. I didn't know what that need was at the time, but eventually I came to realize that the industry was on the verge of being taken over by the wealthier contractors. I first saw it in KEC, where those who knew how to work the system eventually borrowed enough money to start buying out smaller contractors and sucking them dry. Then I saw the poor guys being sucked into the idea that there was no way they could work legally unless they borrow money to buy a bunch of unnecessary equipment.
So I put my nose to the grindstone to see if these things were true. It is my work Dan. My business almost runs itself. That give me time to work on what God may or may not have put me here for. This is my way of giving Dan. My time involved in this is worth much more (to me) than money. After my stroke I know my time here is limited. But I want to spend what is left of it doing good as much as I can.
And doing good does not mean burying my head in the sand and calling out for peace. We are to be the salt of the earth. Salt preserves. It doesn't sit off to the side and do nothing. It permeates. It works. That is what I am trying to do and I am doing it with all my might and doing it as if I am doing it for the Lord.
It's hard. Everyone wants to be liked. No one wants enemies. But it is impossible to fight against people who will lie and cheat without making some enemies.
I am sorry that it has to be that way. The one thing that would make me happier than anything else on earth would be if I could just work, come home, rest, spend time with my family, and not be concerned with what is happening here anymore.
But as long as there are dishonest selfish people willing to lie and cheat to put small guys out of business just to put a few more dollars in their pocket I can't rest.
Maybe I will die having accomplished nothing. But if that happens I will die knowing that I had a work here, and I did it as if I was doing it for the Lord.
Sorry for going on so long with this personal information. I hope you can at least see where my head and heart is in this constant battle that sometimes, to those who don't know all the details, just looks like petty arguing.
Tony, I don't doubt your sincerity at all.
And I understand and follow what you're saying about the principles you cited.
Hopefully your time isn't too limited due to your stroke.
Just to give you a little insight into what makes me comment as I do: I am fully convinced that we are living in the last days of this wicked world. Matt. 24, Mark 13, Luke 21, and 2Tim. 3:1-5 are like today's newspapers. The 'last days' or 'end times' have to come to an accomplished end.
Matt. 24:13 "But he that has endured to the end is the one that will be saved. 14 And this good news of the kingdom will be preached in all the inhabited earth for a witness to all the nations; and then the end will come." 1 John 2:17 Furthermore, the world is passing away and so is its desire, but he that does the will of God remains forever.
The main work true Christians are given to do is preaching the good news or gospel.
And not to come across as insensitive or biased, but I refer to Galatians 6:10: "Really, then, as long as we have time favorable for it, let us work what is good toward all, but especially toward those related to [us] in the faith."
The cold fact is that we can only do individually so much with our finite energy, resources, and time. The true God Jehovah sets the priority for us. Our consciences will guide us as to what to do with any surplus we have in any of those gifts we possess.
And I feel there is a much larger picture than who does what in the PW industry and who needs to be shut down, etc.
I don't think it's a matter of burying ones head in the sand to stand on Psalm 37:7,8 : 7 Keep silent before Jehovah
And wait longingly for him.
Do not show yourself heated up at anyone making his way successful,
At the man carrying out [his] ideas.
ה [Heʼ]
8 Let anger alone and leave rage;
Do not show yourself heated up only to do evil.
The funny thing is that most of these people on either side will NEVER compete against each other for business either. So what happens is that you end up pissing into a hurricane.
Right Larry?