RO and DI systems have their pros and cons.
RODI is better if your using it all the time, but too complicated and expensive if your not.
DI tanks are great if your using it once in a while. They are relatively cheap to rent or buy. Recharging fees vary from area to area. The problems are they can be expensive if your using them a lot. It's also hard to tell when they will run out and need to be recharged.
Advice on the pole... Get the lightest, stiffest, most user friendly one available. It is well worth the money. We have one of the older ones that is carbon, but is heavy and has hoses running through it. When the hoses break, it is a nightmare to fix them. There are new poles with no internal hoses, the water runs through a channel in the pole.
These systems have their place and when they work, they are great. Some jobs they don't work on and are a waste of time. I've found them to work well on maintenance accounts where the windows are not getting super dirty. We use them on all three story jobs. I don't allow anyone to go up over 24' on a ladder.